So, a lot has happened since the last time I posted. The weekend of the festival in the mountains was a whole lot of fun. I did not know what to expect, and from my boyfriend,
it was a good thing to just go in with an open mind. They served beer and wine and liquor and we all drank and talked as we listened to the first band play. After putting down a few drinks, it
was time for the dinner. We all went to one of the really long tables and began to pour ourselves wine and wait for the first course to arrive.
There was a second stage in the dining area that soon came to life with 2 Spanish singers, one who played the trumpet, and four show girls prancing about with feathered costumes and glittery
make-up. During the whole meal that was our means of entertainment. We munched on our salad, our yummy steak and cheeses and our sweet desserts as the Spanish danced and sweat for our
pleasure.
After a belly full of food, we stood and went back to the bar area to drink and dance. It was different, but I guess this is the type of festival you get in the country in the mountains. And the
next morning, I felt the effects of the bad wine and the bad beer. We squinted into the sunlight when we left our house and went to have lunch with his grandmother, who cooked up a big and
fattening meal. It was wonderful. After that we picked up and left for home.
Now, a misfortune happened the day before we left on our little journey to the mountains. That Friday, I went to the train station to catch my train to get to my French classes. I paid with some
Euro coins I had in my change purse and sat and waited with everyone else for the train. I got on the old rickety means of transportation and took it to Albi where I studied. I got off and headed
to a small store that sold snack for I knew I would be a bit hungry later on in the day and thought it would be wise to by a candy bar or drink. When it came time to buy my desired purchases...no
wallet. I searched and search through all m bags...nothing. I said my apologies and thought maybe I just left my wallet on the kitchen table, though I still felt a little nervous.
After class, and after swim practice, I headed back home, hoping to find my little black wallet happily waiting for me in the apartment. Alas, no such thing happened. In a panic I searched high
in low through the house but nothing turned up. Mathieu helped me search when he got back from rugby, as well he could find nothing. My heart sunk. For the first time in my life, my wallet got
stolen.
For the next week I went through the whole process, making my claim at the police office and calling every train station on the route to Albi in hopes that someone turned it in. Nothing. I then
went to the city hall to ask to make a claim that I have to make a new recipe for my Carte de Sejour. Thankfully the people there pretty much know me and helped me out without hesitation.
I lost all hope of ever seeing it again when a week later when I went to the train station to catch my afternoon train to Albi, the ticket seller who I have also become acquainted with, said "I
have something for you!" In a bubbly happy voice. She disappeared and returned in her hand the wallet that I have been missing for a little over a week. I beamed and showered her with thank yous.
I checked inside, everything was there except the 70 Euros I still had in my wallet from withdrawing money for my stipend for the 2 weeks. I expected the money not to be there. I smiled and
thanked her again and skipped to the train. Luck smiled upon me that day. I hope I will not let a person with sticky fingers get away with it again.
It has been a while since my last post and a lot has happened since then. I am now living in my new apartment in Saint-Sulpice. It has been a few weeks now and we are settling
in quite nicely. Most of our furniture is bought and everything is pretty much arranged how we want it.
We had our apartment warming party this past weekend and it was a wonderful turnout. Mathieu’s sister and brother-in-law came, along with many of his friends from college and
where he use to live up in Riom. I cooked Jambalaya for dinner for everyone, and it came out wonderfully. The only problem is that the pot wasn’t really that big enough so there was a small hill
of rice that could be seen over the pot. After we had our fill of good Cajun cooking we buried our faces in one of the desserts and drank away the rest of the night, and played
games and sang songs.
Since moving to our new place, time to time there are big pockets of nothing to do. So, I go about searching on what I could do for the day to make time not pass so painfully.
I do things inside, but after a while I get restless; I’m not fond of staying indoors for long periods of time. Then I would just meander around the town, looking for something to preoccupy
myself with: taking a café at a bar and read a book, window shop, sight see. But in Saint-Sulpice, the majority can all be done in one day. So, I just bumble around town or buzz around the
apartment finding things to do.
I finally started to meet some people in the town as well. Mathieu had a match last Sunday and after the game we went back to the clubhouse and had drinks and dinner with the
team. I met a few of the players and the President of the team who seemed to be rather pleasant. I also chatted with some of the girlfriends and wives of the players. It was nice to
socialize.
This weekend Mathieu and I are going to go up to the Pyrenees for Cazaux-Fest, a small little gathering in the village where his grandmother lives. I think it will be
interesting to see a country-like festival in France.
Tuesday was a big day for me, and not just because I got the will to get out of bed before 10 am. Oh no! She rolled out of bed around 5:50am to
prepare for her day to go to her first French class inAlbi. I
packed all that I needed and took my bike to the train station where I took an hour train ride toAlbi. I just sat back and took a cat nap till the voice over the intercom mumbled that we were approaching the
city.
After gathering up my bike, I headed off to school. When I went on my interview last Thursday, I got mybearingson where I needed to go, not to mention I got a good bit lost on the way. At any rate, I made it to the school and headed up to my class. Sitting on the stairs waiting
for our professor to arrive, I met an American who was living inAlbifor a year to study French. Later on, I met
another American that was living here with her boyfriend in a town not too far from SaintSulpicewhere I will be
living.
Class was very pleasant, but a little slow going on the fact it was the first day and we had to go over documents and just simple introductions and the liking. Also we were interrupted by the
fire alarm, so we went on our break a little early and chit chatted downstairs near the vending machines.
After class wasover with, I knew I had a good bit of time to kill judging that it was
only 12pm and my swim practicewasn’tuntil 6:15pm. I went to the train station and bought my ticket toLavaurwhere my swim practice is held, and afterwards I road around the city to do some sight seeing. Though I already
adventured around the city withMathieua month or so ago, I still found new things to see. I also ate at a nice
restaurant in a courtyard near the cathedral. The food was delicious and theroséwine was refreshing.
After my lunch and further exploration of the city, I went back to the train station and took my train toLavaur. My train toLavaurwas early, so I also had a
good bit of time to kill by wandering around the city. I found a great little park near a large cathedral where I sat back and read for a while.
When it was time for practice, I peddled to the pool. A few people were standing outside that were a good deal younger than me, which I expected for I was swimming
with the younger ones till I got back on my feet. I caught sight of my coach and exchanged our hellos and I quickly went into the changingroom
andgot dressed.
Once I was at the pool, the practice commenced. It was simple but I had t have it explained to me in detail because the directions were all in French so I was slightly
blind on what to do...After the assistant coach explained to me what to do, everyone in the pool was already 200 meters ahead of me and counting. So I just jumped in the pool till they
justtold meto stop and go on withtheirnext section of practice so we were all on the same page.
I enjoyed getting back into the water. I felt whole again. Though I was a bit rusty, I was so happy to swim again. I parted early unfortunately because I had to catch the last train back to
Toulouse.
When I got to the train station, hoping that I could buy my ticket at the office, the curtains were drawn and a sign saying that it was closed put me into a slight
state of panic and I started to plan out how to talk the conductor to not fine me. I came up to a woman and asked her if there was a machine to buy a ticket. She showed it to me but it was only
for the special kind of cards that they have in France. I sighed and started to think of my options, but the womanchimedin and offered to buy me my ticket. I told her Icouldn’tdo it, for I only had a card. She said
itwasn’ta problem and went over to the machine and bought me a ticket.
I gave her my utter most thanks and talked till the train came and sat next toeach otherchatting on about our lives. She was very kind and after we got off the train together I collected her number in hopes that one free day that I would pay her back for her kindness
and to hopefully kindle the start of afriendship.
So many things are starting to fall into place and so many events are happening!
For one, in two weeks Mathieu and I will be moving into our new apartment in a small town only 20 minutes outside of Toulouse. The full name of the place is Saint Sulpice la Pointe, but for
short: Saint Sulpice. It’s a great little place with a quaint downtown with about 10,000 inhabitants. So its pretty much everyone knows everyone. There is a train station only about a 10 minute
walk from where our apartment is going to be and the town center is a one minute walk, two minutes of you are really really taking your time.
Our apartment is a two bedroom, one bath set up with an "American" kitchen. They call it American because it has a breakfast bar that looks into the living/dining area. It’s a nice sized kitchen
for European apartment standards and its big enough to house our monster of a fridge that Mathieu bought a month or so ago. The bedrooms are a really nice size, though one is a good bit bigger
than the other, which will be our bedroom. The other will probably be turned into an office/study. Each bedroom has great closet space, and the bedroom we will be sleeping in, has 2 separate his
and hers closets. A really nice perk. The bathroom is a relatively nice size with a tub and small sink with cabinet space. I believe the size of the apartment is 60 square meters, about 645
square feet. It’s a nice sized apartment, but we still have a few things to purchase for it.
In other news, Mathieu started up with the Rugby team in Saint Sulpice. It’s a good thing because he eats, drinks, breaths, dreams, and shits the sport. He is up and back into sports, which is
nice because it will give him some stress release as he practices and tackles the hell out of other men on the field. So 2-3 days a week after work he will go to practice and on Saturdays there
will be the games, wherever they will be. I’m glad he has gotten back into the grove of working out.
And as for me, about a 10 minute train ride from Saint Sulpice is a town called Lavaur where I will start back up with swim team! The coach of the team, Pierre Prete, use to swim professionally
and now just coaches the team in the little town. When Mathieu called to coach to discuss the details of the team, the coach seemed really eager to have me. Also he speaks English, so I will call
him later on in the week to talk with him personally and receive the details directly and get a few questions answered. But for now, I will go to the first meeting of the team on September 21 and
I will practice with the junior team, ages 12 to 18, to get back into the grove. Then if I feel comfortable, I will train with the adults. There are a few people my age that are on the team and a
few people that live in Saint Sulpice that I can carpool with to practice. The interesting point is that the coach thinks I’m really good, but Mathieu was telling him that I haven’t swam in a few
years. Let’s just hope that they don’t have false hopes about me. Haha!
Also, this coming Thursday I have an interview with the school up in Albi that teaches French for free. I will have to look my best, and correct me if I’m wrong, but from what I understand it is
similar to a job interview. So, I will go there and speak with whoever is in charge of interviewing students, and this will be a make or break in me learning French for free. A family friend of
Mathieu is Polish and took the same classes, and pretty much within a year she was really well grounded in the language, as far as to say almost fluent. Here is hoping that it will be the same
for me. The reason the classes are for free is because your home country's government pays for it. Lets cross our fingers that America shells out the dough for little ol' Izzy.
I’m so happy to have all of this good news; it really gives me high spirits living here because for a long time I would have a period of utter boredom. But I’m so thrilled; things are finally
looking on the up and up.
Talk about a lazy and great weekend. Every year, one of Mathieu's really good friends throws a party in a house that they own right outside of Avignon. This year apparently it was smaller than
the others, but to me it was wonderful all the same.
Friday evening, after Mathieu and Tom (my roommate) got back from work, we got ready and another friend of theirs came and picked us up for so we would all carpool together and save on the
expensive gas. After about a 3 hour drive and it being almost midnight, we made it to our final destination...
There were about 8 people when we got there and were greeted with the smells of the BBQ grilling different meats and a brie that they melted over the fire that we ate with fresh bread. Delicious!
Not to mention we drank a great variety of choices and were up till the wee hours of the morning chatting, singing, dancing, and goofing off.
On Saturday, when we got the energy to roll out of bed, we ate a late breakfast of Nutella and french bread and hung about chit chatting and chilling outside in the perfect weather. The whole
weekend there was not a cloud in the sky to be found and the temperature felt like a comfortable 80 degrees. There was a fresh breeze that rolled in once and a while that felt refreshing. There
were two hammocks in the yard that I took full advantage off for enjoying this perfect weather.
After eating lunch and drinking a bit, the men gathered into the living room of the house and watched the several rugby games that were airing that day. I watched for a while, but dozed off for a
little snooze. After being lazy for a while, we sat down for our afternoon aperitif and munched on nuts and olives while I watched and learned a French card game.
That afternoon we played a game of petanque and afterwards prepared dinner. In the evening we sat down to a steaming hot, delicious plate of ratatouille, a dish made with tomatoes, zucchini,
eggplant, and a few other veggies stewed in a pot for a good while. It was to die for. After we had our fill, we indulged ourselves with the big bowl of pre-prepared mohito and yet again had a
night of drinking and being silly.
Sunday was a bit warm, so after getting up and at 'em, I dressed into my swimsuit and took a dip in the pool. Others enjoyed the refreshing water as well and we played netless pool volleyball.
After an hour or so being in the pool, I got out and joined Mathieu on one of the hammocks and chatted with other people. We enjoyed our lazing about then we all sat down to eat lunch. We enjoyed
the rest of your afternoon sipping on drinks and talking.
We finally got in gear, straightened up a good bit and packed our things. After all was done, we said our goodbyes and promises to visit each other over the course of the year then we all parted
ways. To me, that was a perfect little vacation. I can’t wait to do it again next year!
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My name is Izzy Gianelloni. I am a simple New Orleans girl making my way though school and taking it easy in the Big Easy. Suddenly, love caught me by surprise and I fell for a French exchange student. One event led to another and now I'm on my way to live with him in his home country. This blog is to keep track of my travels and my life experience of living in France and being in love in France. Lets see how this American fairs in Frenchland.